Showing posts with label Holiday Family Gatherings; Toxic Relatives and Family Members;. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Holiday Family Gatherings; Toxic Relatives and Family Members;. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

The Picture "Imperfect" Family...

Holiday Family Gatherings...

Whenever people get together, there lies problems.
Whether it's Uncle Jack or Grandma Sue, 2nd cousin Mary-Lou, there is always one or two people in every family who creates drama and chaos.


What to do with Toxic Relatives?

Know when to draw the line - Enough is enough
Allow "Natural Consequences" - Stop protecting 
Decide how you want to relate to difficult family members - Take back the control
Distance is okay - Boundary is essential
Don't expect the person to change - We only have control over our own reactions and responses
Prepare for the worst and hope for the best - Face up to reality

We may be hoping for a picture-perfect family... 

But, Sometimes it's just smarter to be prepared...