Sunday, April 1, 2012

Sunday Testimony - Overcome!

Everyone Overcome...

Palm Sunday...on All Fools' Day
Made me think of how many may have thought Jesus was foolish.
Many continue to see the Followers as foolish.
Foolish as it may be, living out The Example set before us is our only testimony.

Overcome...
by Jeremy Camp and the Desperation Band

Jeremy Camp's thoughts on Overcome

Desperation Band 

Saturday, March 31, 2012

TEDxConejo - A Thought Provoking Day

Together - 2012 Theme for TEDxConejo

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.  
                                             Maya Angelou

What a Great Way to end my year long commitment to this blog!

It started as a challenge to myself last year after I attended the 2nd annual TEDxConejo.

For 2012, ideas of Gather, Share and Connect pushed the attendees to dream, to act and to find their passion!

Every speaker had a story to share, I was moved by many.

Marica Wieder, CEO and founder of Dream University, dared everyone "to dream."
Not only to dream, but to dream big was her message.
www.dreamuniversity.com

Fr. Greg Boyle, founder and executive director of Homeboy Industries, inspired me the most.
It wasn't just what he has done for the ex-gang members.  It was his idea and emphasis on "Kinship."
"You cannot stay an enemy to your rival once you get to know them as a person, a brother, a sister, a kin in this world we call home."
http://homeboy-industries.org/

Bibi Caspari, founder of Forward Step, a learning coalition toward personal development for the at risk population, reminded the audience that "Everyone matters."
No matter how small the step (toward change), how little the movement, no one is ever insignificant.
She heighten her emphasis with the example of the butterfly effect in the chaos theory.

"The butterfly effect is the sensitive dependence on initial conditions, where a small change at one place in a non-linear system can result in large differences to a later state."

You can look up the science behind the butterfly effect.
http://forwardstep.org/

So after a long and intellectually, emotionally and spiritually challenging day, what is the bottomline?
Everyone has a message, a story to tell, a life to live out.  What will continue to be mine?
Dreaming the impossible into the I'm Possible?
Take action, no matter how small the movement?
Be engaging in the world of kinship?

Maybe one of these, maybe all of these, maybe not yet...
But I do realize that My Life is My Message.  I have to live it, and hopefully live it well.

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Sunday Affirmation - What a Savior

Laura Story
...What a Savior


You are my only hope
Your kindness is my friend
In Your presence You restore us 

Jesus You are stronger
More than any other
Hallelujah what a savior
Jesus You are higher
My soul´s deepest desire
Hallelujah what a savior 

Laura Story is always inspirational.  As we move closer and closer to Easter, such affirmation of His truth, His deed and His Grace!

Laura Story talks about What a Savior

What a Savior with Lyrics


Monday, March 12, 2012

Good Eats - Yes...It's Corned Beef time of the year!

Once a year...
Corned Beef and Cabbage Dinner
(ok, maybe 3 times a year. we do stock up if there is a good sale)

It's not often the every member of the household scream, "YEAH!" to dinner.  But in our house corned beef has that effect.

Extremely easy, but you can still pretend you "slaved over the stove" for that ultra delicious dinner.

I am including two (2) different recipe.  The really really really easy one pot dinner over the stove and the "a little bit" more work oven baked version with Guinness!

I do like my corned beef a bit firmer so I included a cooking time range.  And the "Horseradish Cream" is a Must at our house. Every time, I have to laugh and ask if Nerdy Hubby wants a little beef with his plateful of  cream.


No-Fail Corned Beef & Cabbage Dinner

Ingredient:
3-4 pounds corned beef brisket with spice packet
12 small red potatoes
6 carrots, peeled and cut into 3-inch pieces
1 large head cabbage, cut into small wedges

Direction:
1.  Place corned beef in large pot or Dutch oven and cover with water. Add the spice packet that came with the corned beef. Cover pot and bring to a boil, then reduce to a simmer. Simmer approximately 30-40 minutes per pound or until tender.

2.  Add whole potatoes and carrots, and cook until the vegetables are almost tender. Add cabbage and cook for 8-10 minutes. Remove meat and let rest 15 minutes.

3.  Place vegetables in a bowl and cover. Add as much broth (cooking liquid reserved in the Dutch oven or large pot) as you want. Slice meat across the grain.

Flat Cut is leaner; Point Cut is more flavorful due to the fat;
 Don't overcook the poor cabbage, it should not be gray;
Never forget the Horseradish Cream


Oven Baked Corned Beef in Guinness

For the Corned Beef
2 bottles Guinness beer (or other dark beer)
2 tablespoons dark brown sugar
3-4 pound corned beef brisket, rinsed well and patted dry
1 tablespoon pickling spice (or the spice packet that came with the corned beef)
1/2 onion
1 entire head of garlic, halved
Water, enough to be an inch of liquid in the pan

For the Vegetables
1 head cabbage, cut into 6 sections
6 carrots, cut into chunks
12 red potatoes, cut into chunks

directions:
1. Preheat oven to 300F.
2. Put all the ingredients except the vegetables into a Dutch oven or a oven proof large pot, if needed, add enough water to cover the beef.
3. Bring to a simmering boil on the stovetop, be careful not to let the beer boil over.
4. Once it begins simmering, cover the pot and place in oven to roast for 3-4 hours, flipping meat once during halfway point, add more liquid if necessary.
5. Check for desired tenderness (I like my corned beef a bit firmer). Then remove from liquid and cover with foil to keep it warm.
6. Drain the liquid into a pot to remove the onion, garlic, and spices. Bring to a simmering boil.
7. Cook the potatoes and carrots in the simmering liquid for 15 minutes then add the cabbage and cook for another 10 minutes. Check for doneness.
8. Plate the vegetables and serve with sliced up corned beef. Pour some liquid over the plate. 

Examples of Dutch oven and oven proof pans;
Some people do this in an Electric Roaster Oven
Horseradish Cream

1 tablespoon of prepared horseradish (or to your taste)
1 cup of sour cream (or you can replace 1/2 cup of sour cream with Greek style yogurt)
1/2 teaspoon of salt
a dash of pepper

Combine everything and refrigerate for at least an hour. Taste and re-season if necessary. 


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Sunday Encouragement - Live Like That

Live Like That 
by Sidewalk Prophets

Much thoughts on people, people's stories, and telling stories this week.

Many love to speak of the past, reminiscent about the past, maybe even feeling trapped by the past. They speak as if life just happened (to them).

Life is always moving forward, even if we don't recognize it or ignore it.

Hopefully, Many More of us do live today with the future in mind.  

Love the encouragement and the reminder of this song...Live Like That

Am I proof
That You are who you say You are
That grace can really change a heart
Do I live like your love is true


...if love is who I am
Then this is where I'll stand
Recklessly abandoned 
Never holding back...


Sidewalk Prophets - Live Like That


Sidewalk Prophets Speak - Ben


Sidewalk Prophets Speak - Shaun

Sidewalk Prophets Speak - Justin

Saturday, March 10, 2012

To Tell A Great Story = Lives To Be Shared

Great Story Telling...


May it be a novel, a play, a screenplay (I do live near Hollywood) or poetry, it's all about the delivery!


Taking the readers/audience on a journey...
Asking them to trust you, one page, one scene, one word at a time...
Promising them that it will all be worth it...
The End will need to be in mind every step of the way...
The Key of "the end" is Personal and may be Subjective,
Yet...It's a Journey to be Shared!

The Master Storytellers on TED.com - Andrew Stanton, Sarah Kay, Charlie Todd, etc
Here is Sarah Kay at work!

The Poetry of Sarah Kay

Friday, March 9, 2012

In Praise of Youth Orchestra(s)


The Infamous YOLA - Youth Orchestra of Los Angeles at the LAPhil
http://www.laphil.com/education/yola.cfm

YOLA changes lives - one child, one family, one community at a time.

Gustavo Dudamel's YOLA teaches children to be a better musician, a better leader, and a better person.  Many went from hopeless life circumstances to a life full of promises!

Next Event of YOLA:  April 21, 2012 at First Congregational Church of Los Angeles
Join us for the second annual YOLA Neighborhood Project (YNP) Day, where over 1,500 students from YOLA and YOLA Neighborhood Project schools in South L.A. and the Rampart District will come together to perform Beethoven’s “Ode To Joy.” Led by YOLA conductor Bruce Kiesling, the day will celebrate the power of music that unites our communities.


A Little Closer to Home...
The Glendale Youth Orchestra
Celebrating 20 years, the mission of the Glendale Youth Orchestra is to provide qualified young musicians an environment in which to explore, comprehend, appreciate and develop a lasting interest in music in a quality setting.

Next Event for GYO:  Sunday, March 11, 2012 at 7:00pm at the Alex Theatre in Glendale, CA
$10 General Admission


At Home...In Santa Clarita Valley...
The Santa Clarita Valley Youth Orchestra

The Santa Clarita Valley Youth Orchestra (SCVYO) Foundation is a non-profit organization which supports three instrumental performing groups at the College of the Canyons in Santa Clarita, California: the Prelude Strings, Intermediate Orchestra, and the Symphony of the Canyons.   The foundation seeks to provide an instrumental education program for students eight years old and above.  SCVYO is one of the few orchestral music programs available in the Los Angeles area that allows students to study and perform masterpieces from all periods of the orchestral and chamber music repertoire.
We envision the SCVYO as a gathering of talented youth who, through exposure to expert instruction, musical knowledge, and ethnic diversity acquire a love of beauty, learn to pursue excellence, demonstrate personal growth as musicians, and enrich the cultural life of our community.

Next Event for SCVYO:  Thursday March 15, 2012 at 7:00 pm at COC's Performance Art Center
Something Old, Something New, and a Little Bit of The Blues at PAC Main Stage Thu., March 15, 2012 at 7:00 pm $10/$5 Symphony of the Canyons, the college’s top student orchestra, performs a concert full of comforting classics, newer works and bluesy offerings including Strauss’ 'Blue Danube' waltz.




Thursday, March 8, 2012

International Women's Day - March 8th


http://www.internationalwomensday.com
International Women's Day - 2012

My Hope for the day and the month...and to the years to come:

Celebrate the Women that We Are...
Move Forward the World that Embrace "Her Strengths"...
Inspire the Girls to Be Women of Worth...

March is Women's History Month. March 8th 2012 marks the 101st year of  International Women's Day.
Women have come a long way, but yet, the road toward a better world continues.


What holds dear to my heart is the organization,
"Christians for Biblical Equality" - CBE Official Website


Christians for Biblical Equality (CBE) is a nonprofit organization of Christian men and women who believe that the Bible, properly interpreted, teaches the fundamental equality of men and women of all ethnic groups, all economic classes, and all age groups, based on the teachings of Scriptures such as Galatians 3:28:

“There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus” (NIV 2011).

CBE affirms and promotes the biblical truth that all believers - without regard to gender, ethnicity or class—must exercise their God-given gifts with equal authority and equal responsibility in church, home and world.

Leadership is about Gifts, Not Gender...

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

The Hunger Games Trailer...So Many Versions...

The Hunger Games (2012)

It's been call the most anticipated movie since Harry Potter.
Teens and Adults are racing to finish reading the book so to be ready for the movie.  Some are happy that the movie is coming out so that they don't have to read the book at all.

Whatever may be may be...It's a Big Deal.

So I was trying to at least keep up with some of my clients with the movie trailer...I found quite a few...

Official Release - Lego Version - Spoof Version -
Hopefully to tie one over until 3/23/2012!



Official Movie Trial

The Lego Version (made by fan)

The Hunger Games Spoof 

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

The Value of Balance...Extrovert...Introvert

Extrovert...Introvert...

As a parent and as someone who guides people toward self understand,  personality is always a topic of interest.

There has been an covert sentiment that Extroverts are better than the Introverts of the world.  Many people have been led to believe that there is something "wrong" or "less desirable" in being an Introvert.

Reality is that, these terms in their truest sense, are just a description of how people feel recharged and refreshed.  Extroverts more often than not feel rejuvenated after spending time with people, lots of people.  Social activities would be their choice to bring life back to a balance.  Introverts on the other hand, will need solitude. Activities which give them time alone help them to recuperate and go back out into the world.

Susan Cain talks about The Power of Introverts at TED.com

Monday, March 5, 2012

Good Eats - Curry Chicken Salad

Long-Time Addiction...Chicken Salad

Every So Often, I need my Chicken Salad Sandwich Fix!

My secret ingredient for the sandwich...Strawberry Preserve/Jam. Just a light spread on one side of the sandwich. And if you do not disclose the secret...You will be famous for your Chicken Salad Sandwich.  Trust me...it's true :0)



Chicken Salad with Curry & Tarragon


Ingredients:
 4 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves - cooked and diced
2 stalk celery, diced
1 apple - peeled, cored and diced
1  cup seedless grapes, halved
½  cup chopped toasted pecans (optional)

Dressing for the Salad:
½  teaspoon curry powder
¼ teaspoon of tarragon
2 teaspoon of apple cidar vinegar
2 teaspoon of yellow mustard
1 teaspoon of sugar
3/4 cup light mayonnaise
Salt & Pepper – to taste

Combine the all ingredients (except the pecans) with the dressing.
Refrigerate for 3 hours or overnight.
Sprinkle pecans over salad and serve.

Enjoy! 




Sunday, March 4, 2012

Sunday Assurance - When I Call on Jesus...


Nicole Mullen
...sings When I Call On Jesus

It's an older song, but the message always rings true!

It's been a week of seeing impossibilities.
Yet, also a week of knowing the possibilities.

In Him, All Things Are Possible!
Whatever our situation, circumstances...
Hope lies with Him who will move mountains to come to us.






Saturday, March 3, 2012

Tan Le - One of the Many Faces of "Possibility"

Tan Le
...At the age of 34, Tan has already lived 4 life-time of experiences.
A Vietnam Refugee at the age of 4
College at the age of 16
A Law Degree
A Goodwill Ambassador for Australia in Asia.
Young Australian of the Year
Co-founder of two telecommunication/technology companies
Most currently CEO of Emotiv - developing technology for brain-computer interface

Yet, today's story is about none of the above accomplishments.

It's about her story...a very personal, yet extremely eloquent and moving story of herself, her mother and her grandmother.

In the face of True Impossibilities...
She became a role model of "Possibility."


Friday, March 2, 2012

Impossible >>> I'm Possible


A Glimpse into the life of school age children at my house...

Homework Time
The math problems are "impossible" to be solved.

Poetry Reciting 
It's "impossible" to remember the whole thing.

Dinner Time
I'm full already, it's "impossible" for me to finish my plate.

If you can't tell by now, if I get a dollar for every "impossible" I hear, I would be able to retire tody.

We talk a lot about "trying," "practicing," "doing," and even "praying."
We emphasize the values of "Not Giving Up", "Give It Your Best," and "Achieve Your Own Goals,"
But kids will be kids...complain, complain, complain!

The latest "impossibility" is piano practice for an upcoming recital.
If it's not the notes, then it's the tempo, or the techniques, even the ending gesture.

So I did what all moms in the 21th century would do...Go To Youtube...
Searched piano...and of course for Lang Lang...showed them the following video.
Mine are no virtuoso...my goal is just for them to be able to read notes.

But...
Just for a few minutes, I got them to stop complaining! :0)

Lang Lang & Marc Yu - Schubert Fantasia Part I 
(you can find part ii & part iii on youtube)

Thursday, March 1, 2012

TED - Technology...Entertainment...Design

TED Conference 2012



Always the last week of February
Always in Long Beach California
Always Awe Inspiring

Each year, the world's leading thinkers and doers gather for an event many describe as the highlight of their year. Attendees have called it "The ultimate brain spa" and "A 4-day journey into the future, in the company of those creating it."

At a price tag of $7500 and an official application to attend, it's a bit of our reach for most. (I calculated if you save a dollar a day, it will take 20 1/2 years to get you $7500; it's worth a try!)

But the free videos are accessible to anyone and everyone who have access to the internet.
If a person can be "In Love" with a concept, TED would be it for me.
I don't always agree.  I don't even always understand. But I am always intrigued!

TED2012 
we celebrated the reinvention of the art of spoken word, and nudged it a further step forward -- through the rich use of multiple technologies, formats and approaches for the most powerful possible impact on an audience. 

TED2012 Program...Just a Glimpse into the Lineups of "Brain Power."
http://conferences.ted.com/TED2012/program/guide.php

This was posted by them for fun...

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Jiro Dreams of Sushi - One Man's Dedication to the Perfect Sushi

Jiro Ono...
Creates the Best Sushi in the World

Michelin crowned him with 3 stars.
The great French chef Daniel Boulud said there is no one more dedicated to the art of sushi than Jiro.
Anthony Bourdain was in awe of Jiro after being served the Best Sushi in the World.

David Gelb's documentary of the Art and the Man...of Sushi Making is coming to theatres March 9, 2012.
http://www.magpictures.com/jirodreamsofsushi/

It's a film about dedication, legacy, perfection.  Equally transparent is the complex relationships between father and son.  Sushi is never just a piece of fish on rice.  Just as relationship is never just between two people.  The Appreciation always lies in the complexity within the relationship.

The Director warned not to go see the film on an empty stomach!!!  Watch the Trailer and judge for yourself.

Jiro Dreams of Sushi - Official Trailer

Anthony Bourdain at Sukiyabashi Jiro
 

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Meaningful Vows...Keeping The Promise

A Promise...
To Love
To Have
To Hold
To Keep

The month of February has always emphasized Love.
Many people in the month of February make a pledge to Love.
May it be the beginning of a new relationship, or the commitment of marriage, couples make promises to one another.

How does one keep a promise?

Keep the words of the promise at hand
Make the promise concrete
Take Actions on the promise
Do it even if you don't "feel like it"
Reward each other for the small things and big things

If we are to keep our promise to love..
For Better, For Worst
For Richer, For Poorer
In Sickness and In Health
...As Long As We (both shall) Live

Then...
Keeping the Vows Meaningful...Keeping the Promise to Love
Are the Keys to a Life Journey of Love

Monday, February 27, 2012

Good Eats - 40 Cloves Garlic Chicken

Slow Roasted...
40+ Cloves of Garlic
Fresh Herbs and Lemon
Organic Free Range Chicken
2 Hours in the Oven
Viola!

I have always wanted to try this recipe.
After I mention this, people all around are telling me how they do it.
...Roast entire heads of garlic then use them as spread
...40 isn't enough, 60 cloves
...Extra herbs
...Use chicken pieces instead of whole
...Extra citrus
...cook entirely with 400 degrees
...cook in crock pot
etc, etc, etc.

Here is the basic, feel free to improvise!
My menu was...40 Cloves Garlic Chicken; Roasted Vegetables with Cous Cous; Warm Balsamic Dressing with Cranberries



40 Cloves Garlic Chicken

Ingredients
3-4 heads of garlic, about 40 cloves
4 lbs of roasting chickens (parts will work too)
1 tablespoon fresh thyme leaves (or 2 teaspoons of dry herb)
1 tablespoon fresh Sage or Rosemary
½ onion sliced
1 stalk of celery, cut into 3 inch pieces
2 small carrots, peeled and cut into 3 inch pieces
2 tablespoons good olive oil
Kosher or Sea salt
Freshly ground black pepper
1 cup dry white wine
Juice of 1 lemon
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
2 tablespoons of butter

Directions
Lightly pressed the cloves with a cleaver to separate from skin, then remove skin
Dry the chicken with paper towels
Brush skin with olive oil
Season liberally with salt and pepper, especially the cavity
Put celery and carrots inside the cavity
Line roasting pan (with cover) with the sliced onion
Place garlic cloves on top of onion
Put Chicken on top of the garlic
Sprinkle the chicken with the herbs
Roast chicken uncovered at 400 degrees for 25 minutes
Add white wine and lemon juice to the pan
Cover and reduce temperature to 325 for 1 hour
Do not uncover the lid until the chicken is done
Remove the chicken and let rest for 10 minutes
Remove the onion from the pan, put the garlic and the liquid from the roasting pan into blender (skim off the top layer of fat from the pan juice)
Blend until uniform consistency
Pour into a pan, heat to boil
Mix butter and flour together a paste
Add flour paste as needed to thicken the sauce, salt and pepper to taste
Serve over chicken


Warm Balsamic Dressing 
(for salad & vegetable dishes)
                      
Ingredients
1/2 cup dried currants/cransins (also great with fresh grapes)
7 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
1 5-ounce package thinly sliced pancetta (Italian bacon), finely chopped
2 tablespoon finely chopped shallot
2 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
Pinch of sugar
salt & pepper to taste
1/2 cup candied nuts, coarsely chopped 

Directions
Place currants in small bowl. Heat vinegar in saucepan over medium heat until hot (do not boil). Pour vinegar over currants; let soak until currants soften, 15 to 20 minutes.
Heat large nonstick skillet over medium- high heat. Add pancetta; sauté in low-med heat until brown and crisp, about 5-7 minutes. Add shallot to pancetta and drippings in skillet; sauté 1 minute. Remove from heat. Stir in currant- vinegar mixture and olive oil. Add sugar, salt and pepper. Sprinkle nuts over sauce.


Dinner is Served!



Sunday, February 26, 2012

Sunday Meditation - Less of self, More Of Him

For the Season of Lent...
Practicing Giving Up...the self

Lent, for many, is a season of soul-searching; reflection, repentance. 40 days of preparation toward the humbling yet glorious time of Easter.

People often talk of what they will give up...sugar, chocolate, coffee, smoking, etc.

As I ponder on it, I realized that I need Less of me and  More of Him. A vessel cannot hold a fresh in-pouring, if the content is not poured out.  I pray for freshness and newness. What's in me must be less for Him to be more.

Sara Groves' "Open My Hands," beautifully reminds us that God holds nothing back. He will never withhold what is good; what is love. His desire is to pour into us the peace, the joy, the faithfulness only He can provide.

Sara Groves talks about the song Open My Hands

Open My Hands by Sara Groves

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Juggling Act - Day to Day

Dropped A Few Balls!

So it's been a month since I started the new part-time job.
As the kiddies asked, "How many jobs do you have now, Mom?"
I chuckled to myself and told them I need to put it on my "To-Do List" to count how many jobs I have. And most likely I won't get to it until November!

My client load in private practice has been slowing down for the last 6 months.  So the part-time position is a blessing and definitely a good financial safety net.  But, it does take me physically away from the kids 3 days a week. It requires a 43-mile commute and 30% work related driving.

In the process of juggling and adjusting, I have definitely dropped a few balls.
"Mom, did you pack my _________?"
"Mom, did you get the _________ for school?"
"Mom, did you forget __________?"
Nerdy Hubby has been lovingly picking up the slack.  But I am still the primary multi-tasker in the house.

Then there is this poor blog!  Neglected but Not Forgotten.

How do we balance the juggling act?
1. Such is Life!...accept the fact that we will always be juggling and adjusting...there is no utopia!
2. What's It For?...what are the current life goals & expectations...why the juggling?  What are the family working toward?  Relational; Financial; Practical, etc
3. What Now?...prioritize, prioritize and prioritize. You will most likely always only get the top 3 items done!
4. It's All Good!...If we can accept the reality of our situations, clarify our goals, set realistic expectations, have a timeline, work on the most important things first, Then...most likely, we are on the right track.
5. Just Be Merry...Don't forget to enjoy the Here and Now...Capture the moments with your loved ones.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Songs for My Little Big Man

My Little Man Turned 11 years old Today!

February 23, 2001 - 5:29 pm (appx.)

My little man came into our lives kicking and screaming!
It was a moment we waiting for, for a long time.
Not just the 10 months, but closer to 3 years.

Hours, days and months of prayer, tears and faltered hope. Tests, and drugs and medical interventions were done to no avail.

Just when we were about to give up...

(Nerdy Hubby used to quote Hannah's husband from the Bible, "...why are you weeping? Why don’t you eat? Why are you downhearted? Don’t I mean more to you than ten sons?”)

...we found ourselves pregnant!

The chorus of "I Know I Loved You (before I met you)" always bring tears to my eyes.
I remember sobbing to this all throughout the 1st trimester. I used to softly say, "You are so very much loved, more than you can ever imagine.  You are so wanted and you are worth the wait," over and over.


As time passes, life gets in the way.  The important words of love are at times left on the wayside. Disciplines and directions dominate the words that come out.  Yet, I would never want my Little Man to ever forget...
He was my First, he taught me how to be a mom. I needed him, as I still do, and will always be, as the teacher to my art of mothering.


Happy 11th Birthday My Little (Big) Man!

Monday, February 13, 2012

Good Eats - Grilled Steak with Argentinian Chimichurri Sauce

Argentinian Chimichurri Sauce

My new addiction!

Recently had the best Chimichurri sauce at an Argentinian restaurant.  Then over the weekend had empanadas at a Farmer's Market and they served another killer Chimichurri sauce.

Led me to the search for a yummy recipe to try at home. You can eat it just with bread.  I have meat eaters at my house so I grilled a nice steak to go with it.

Here is a great one to start with. A few recipes recommend mortar and pestle to make the sauce. I don't have one so I only used a blender.  This may just push me to invest in a set of mortar and pestle.


Argentinian Chimichurri Sauce:
1 cup lightly packed flat leaf Italian parsley
5 cloves garlic, minced
1 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon freshly ground pepper
1/2 teaspoon chili pepper flakes
1 tablespoons fresh oregano leaves (1 teaspoon of dry oregano)
2 tablespoons shallot or onion, minced
3/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
3 tablespoons red wine vinegar
3 tablespoons lemon juice

Place all ingredients in blender or food processor.
Pulse until ingredients are finely chopped (not pureed).

Grilled Steak:
3 lbs of Skirt Steak, (New York or Rib Eyes also work well)
1 tablespoon of paprika
2 teaspoon of salt
1 teaspoon of black pepper
2 teaspoon of garlic powder
1 tablespoon of olive oil

Rub steak with all ingredients and let sit for an hour before grilling.
Then grill steak to desired doneness.

Serve with Chimichurri Sauce. Of course a nice bottle of Argentinian Melbec will make everything even better!


2009 Benmarco Malbec Mendoza


Sunday, February 12, 2012

Sunday Reflection - This Life

This Life
...by MercyMe

It's been a whirlwind of a week. Having to section off my life into 3 or 4 sections on a weekly basis is pretty intense and can be a bit disorienting.

It's the jobs I have to do, the roles I have to play, things I have to get done.

I don't presume that I am the exception in the daily grind of our earthly life.  I do affirm that life can be uneasy but necessary for many.

I love the title of MercyMe's current album "The Generous Mr. Lovewell."
That is who leads me as I walk this journey of life. He is generous enough to give me strength on a daily basis. Yet understanding enough to know that I won't be perfect.

Sometimes, the discomfort in life are meant to remind us that we don't belong. We are created for something more. But until then, we are to make the best of us and make This Life meaningful.

This Life by MercyMe - with Lyrics 

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Movie Night - Hugo

Hugo (2011)
...a Martin Scorsese film

A Great Adventure for the senses.
It's sad to have to see the many child-stars playing orphans lately in the movies.
It always grips at my heart to feel the loss and the grief. Yet that seems to bring out the most of the human spirit, when one is faced with loss.

How to persevere?
To overcome?
To find hope?
To rebuild?
To dream again?


Official Trailer

Trailer 2

Featurette with Martin Scoreses

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Narcissism Defined


Narcissists around us are more common than we would like.
If they don't impact our lives, they are actually pretty interesting kind of people.
Unfortunately, by the nature of a Narcissist, he/she will make sure to "make an impact" in our lives.

The 4 key characteristics include Grandiosity; Need for Admiration; Lack of Empathy and Aggression/Rage when the grandiose self-image is disputed.

The Mayo Clinic described it this way:

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. Those with narcissistic personality disorder believe that they're superior to others and have little regard for other people's feelings. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem, vulnerable to the slightest criticism.


Many of the people we meet do not meet the criteria of the actual disorder, but possess the "Traits."  Which means they behave and demonstrate the four key characteristics to a lesser degree.

You may have try to talk "sense" into them; You may have try to "logically reasons" with them; You might even have "Plead to appeal to their Feelings." And find that these common sense methods do not work.

It's always important to realize that it's not about how your present or even how you try to work things out.  Because, unfortunately, it will always be "About Them."

Monday, February 6, 2012

Good Eats - Chinese Soy Sauce Chicken

Chinese Soy Sauce Chicken
...easier than it looks

I have use the Soy Sauce recipe for a whole chicken, quarters, legs, wings, even for soy sauce eggs.

The key is to boil, simmer, then leave the chicken alone to sit in the sauce.  "Don't peek and never open the lid!"  

If you can follow the golden rule, then this is a no fail recipe.


Chinese Soy Sauce Chicken Recipe

Ingredients:
4 chicken leg quarters
2-inch ginger (peeled lightly crushed)
4 cloves garlic (lightly crushed)
2 stalks scallions (cut into 2-inch lengths)
2 star anise (for optimal flavor, can purchase at Asian market)
1 cinnamon stick (about 2-inch length)
1 cup soy sauce
1/2 cup dark soy sauce
3 tablespoon Chinese rice wine (I actually prefer Japanese Sake)
1 teaspoon white pepper powder
4 oz. rock sugar (or 4 tablespoons of Dark Brown Sugar)
4 cups water

Add all ingredients (except the chicken) into a deep pot and bring it to boil on high heat for 15 minutes. Add the chicken quarters into the pot and boil over high heat for about 10 minutes. Lower the heat to simmer for about 30 minutes. Turn off heat and let the chicken steeped in the soy sauce mixture for 1 to 2 hours to soak in the flavor.

When ready to serve, chop into pieces and serve with Ginger and Scallion dipping sauce.
(Soy sauce chicken is usually served at room temperature or just slightly warm.)

You can also use the same recipe with 3 lbs of chicken wings.

Ginger and Scallion Dipping Sauce
1 oz. ginger (peeled, finely chopped)
1 scallion (cut into thin rounds)
1 teaspoon chicken bouillon powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons oil

Method:
To prepare the ginger and scallion dip, place the ginger, scallions, salt, and chicken bouillon powder into a heat proof bowl. Heat up 2 tablespoons of oil in a small pot/pan until it starts to smoke. Pour the oil immediately into the bowl and blend well. Set aside.

Dinner is Served (with a side of veggies)
The Soy Sauce Wings...Oh So Good!

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Sunday Refresher - Learning to Be the Light

Learning To Be The Light
by newworldson

Part of the Transformational Vision I seek is to be a Light that Shine on the Love that is always around us.

One line in the song said,
"when all came crashing down
there was only darkness all around
but in a distance I could see
A Flame.."

Learning To Be The Light - newworldson

The band NEWWORLDSON is new to me, here is their website info
Nice sound and Great message!
http://www.newworldson.com/newworldson/index.htm

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Turning Vision Into Mission

Vision >>> Mission

Vision defined:  the ability to perceive future development; the act of anticipating what may be to come

Mission defined: a calling of occupation; operational tasks; summary of aims, values, an overall plan

Not sure why this has been on my mind. The values of personal vision and mission.

I don't make resolutions, but I do like to think about Visions for one's life and transforming them into Life Mission.

I have always had tons of ideas about things and life in general.  I live in the world of  "possibilities." But, I have learned long ago that I should never follow my "great, ingenious" ideas immediately. Many of these possibilities are not practical. For many people, having a vision for one's life is not difficult.  Transforming vision into a plan of actions, a mission of sort is where the real work is.

Someone had once said that there are 6 qualities to a transformational vision:
1. Imaginable - You must be able to picture it
2. Desirable - You must really want it
3. Feasible - You must be able to do it
4. Focused - You must be able to break it down to steps
5. Flexible - You must be willing to change it
6. Communicable - You must be able to talk about it

That's what a Life Mission is: a Personal Mission Statement
What our Life Goals?
What do we Stand For?
What are our Values?
What are we Willing To Do?
What will We Communicate?
What Legacy Will We Leave?

Friday, February 3, 2012

Family Movie Night - Dolphin Tale

Dolphin Tale (2011)

The storyline far exceed my expectation.
Inspired by real life story, quite moving.
Wonderful message about disability and never giving up.

Lots of big name actors, but the stars remained with the main character Sawyer Nelson and the dolphin Winter.

Introduced my kiddies to the issue of physical disability. The emphasis on friendship is refreshing and heartwarming.  Ultimately a community came together, people bonded and lives are changed.





Trailer - Dolphin Tale
A Symbol of Hope

The Inspirational True Story of Winter

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Fun - M&Ms

Latest Craving...Pretzel M&Ms

So the kiddies found a new love...
Pretzel inside the M&Ms...extremely goooood!

Their website is pretty fun too...
http://www.mms.com/us/


Very Funny!

Funnier...Hungry Eyes

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Movie Night - The Painted Veil

The Painted Veil (2006)
Based on W. Somerset Maugham's original story of the same name.

Can a movie be "Realistically Romantic?"
It does sound like an oxymoron...but nonetheless, I will stand by my claim.

Because the movie is based on the writing of Maugham, there are so many quotables.

...If people only spoke when they had something to say, the human race will soon lose the power of speech.

...Women are often under the impression that men are much more madly in love with them than they really are.

...As if a woman ever love a man for his virtue.

My favorite quote from the movie...
...when love and duty are one, grace is within you...

From the book...
...Remember that it is nothing to do your duty, that is demanded of you and is no more meritorious than to wash your hands when they are dirty; the only thing that counts is the love of duty; when love and duty are one, then grace is in you and you will enjoy a happiness which passes all understanding.

The Summary:

A couple with a broken relationship learns some valuable lessons about love, life, and sacrifice in this romantic drama based on a novel by W. Somerset Maugham. It's 1925, and Dr. Walter Fane (Edward Norton) is a physician and bacteriologist who has become smitten with Kitty (Naomi Watts), the beautiful daughter of a wealthy and socially prominent family. Walter proposes marriage to Kitty and she accepts; however, while he clearly loves her, Kitty is more interested in her reputation than Walter's feelings, as she's recently turned 25, an age by which most of her peers have already wed. Kitty and Walter move to Shanghai, where he sets up a practice and she takes a lover, the British Vice Consul Charles Townsend (Liev Schreiber). When Walter learns of his wife's infidelity, he becomes furious, and impulsively volunteers to travel to China to work in a village stricken with a major cholera epidemic. While Walter's actions are meant to punish Kitty rather than reflect his own benevolence, the daily trials of living in a community in crisis have a striking impact on the couple, giving them a new and deeper perspective on their relationship. The Painted Veil is the third screen adaptation of Maugham's best-selling novel of the same name; a 1934 version starred Greta Garbo and Herbert Marshall, while Eleanor Parker and Bill Travers played the leads in a 1957 remake titled The Seventh Sin. ~ Mark Deming, Rovi


Tuesday, January 31, 2012

The Sustaining Power of Friendship

It's Tuesday...
I like to talk about Relationship on Tuesday.
(if you haven't figure it out by now)

One of the most rewarding relationships in life is "Friendship!"
To the many couples I work with, I often ask if they "like" each other and if they are still "friends?"

We can at many occasions love the people in our lives.  We love for many different reasons, under very different conditions.  But I have come to realize that in order for any relationship to be long lasting, the persons must like one another and enjoy each other's company.  They must be friends.

Children may often demonstrate the best kind of friendship.  They play together, they do things together, they argue, may even fight.  But then the next day, they are all better.  Kids can easily forgive their friends.  Do-overs are almost weekly, if not daily.  Children know that they are not good at being friends yet.  That's why they make mistakes.  But they are also quick to forgive and give second chances.

Grown up friendship needs to be similar.  They have to like each other; they must enjoy spending time together. It's important to have common interests. They also have to like doing things together.  They often are physically and emotionally supportive; they enjoy the exchanges of ideas and thoughts.

True friendship often validates, affirms, and create positives in the persons involved.
I love watching and secretly observe my kiddies and their BFF.  I don't really know if they will be BFF forever.  But I do know that "in the moment," they believe it...So seize those "moments" with your friends and make them count!